Its always the little things...

As salam o alaikum! 


Well, first of all, I'd need to clear a huge misunderstanding that was caused in a reader's mind, and most probably, a lot of them. 
Who am I? Why do I write? Who the he** do I think I am? Why do I believe people should read me? 
A very simple answer to this question would be; I am Maryam, a 20 year old girl that wants to learn and teach, and experience life at its best. 
Why do I have a blog? 
Hmm, well, the biggest reason to this has to be, I like to express myself in my own way. My vocabulary isn't extraordinarily fascinating. My writing, sometimes, might not even make that much sense. But I basically write about the things, the events that happen around me, and specially when they do not go as planned, expected or desired. Sometimes, I feel like changing myself into someone who is much better, more understanding towards a situation. Therefore, I write! Not to advice you people, but to show an opinion on how a situation could have been a little bit better, or best, if the thoughts or ideas behind it were different or more, lets say, mature. 


I do not consider myself a chick who knows-it-all. I don't know anything, apart from what I have seen, heard, gone through, and learnt. I perceive situations in ways that sometimes seem self-centered. But may be because I am not allowed to see the other side of the story, I am left with no option but to tell myself constantly that may be, things went the way they were supposed to, or I could have done better. So, while reading this blog, make sure you don't end up converting yourself into me, or misjudging the very concept of my posts. I do not, and I repeat, I do NOT intend to advice or act like a boss. All I wanna do is; spread the message of hope and positive attitude. Because these two things basically bring all the difference in me, you and everyone else. Those are the traits that would separate us from the desperate, gloomy and dark side of the world. Hope, positive behavior and optimism make us the 'bright people'.


Hope; the feeling that what is wanted can be had. 
I, personally, do not describe 'hope' as a feeling, but more as a lifestyle. You can chose to be in despair 24 hours a day, or you can be hopeful for one hour in those 24 hours, and not feel the darkness, the grief in yourself for the rest of the day. 


Basically, a human needs to assert himself that to attain a certain quality, he needs to put the required effort. If he wants to sound good, then prior to that, he would need to become a good listener. Because that's how he'd be able to understand the literal meaning of 'sounding nice'. Same is, when you want things to make you happy, you need to frame yourself and your thoughts accordingly. You need to tell yourself that everything around you is right. And whatever is leading you towards sadness is just another challenge which needs to be faced and, then, sorted out. 


Sometimes people find the very 'easy' way out of hardships; giving up. Which is, according to all literature and Hollywood alike, Cowardly. Most probably because they are too scared of a certain failure or, may be, they just don't feel themselves as good enough. But then again the question rises, how much good is good enough? 
I say, any man who can think about what he has to do, and realizes the consequences, is good enough to face, literally, anything. My belief is, all you need is your mind to constantly assure you that things are eventually going to make sense, once and for all. When you stop complicating the simple things, the beauties of life, such as - love, care, sincerity, kindness and smiles - thats when you discover that every little act you do, every little effort you put into life, is much bigger than your thoughts and imagination. 


If you give love, you might not get the exact return, but the feeling inside of being there for someone, is simply amazing.
If you smile, you might not smile forever, but you'll know the true meaning of it after crying for a little while. 
If you care for someone, they might not give back exactly the way you desired, but in the long run, that care would become the part of your character, and you'll be among those who the world refers as 'humans'. 


Hope is, basically, making yourself believe that life is not as bad as it could have been. Its about the very moment when you're going to make another attempt on hurting someone, but you don't, hoping that they would realize how much you care for them. 
Its about that one second when you're going to assume the worst result of a given challenge, but you tell yourself,"I'll put everything I got, and let my fate decide the rest."


Life, does not come easy for any of us. For a lot of people, it doesn't come easy, at all. But they still survive. They still manage to wake up every single day with a smile on their faces. How? Well, that's the most exact definition of hope! To make your survival 'worth-living', you have to live a simple yet beautiful life. You have to make all the complications xyz turn into simple ABC. Its rather a fairy-tale idea that hope can make everything all right. But ask someone, who was about to lose a loved one in an accident, but hoped the other way round. Ask some student who gave exams during a hard time of their life, and hoped that they would do as great as they wished to. 


Hope is not about sitting on your desk, waiting for your job to be done. Its more of, doing your job with all the hard work and passion in yourself, and guaranteeing your heart that the results are going to be good. 


Life is simple. It consists of simple things; a beautiful smile, a kind gesture, a heart-warming prayer, and a lot of things that are around you which make your inner sense feel better. 
Don't make it complicated enough to make you nervous or afraid. 


As life does not need big words. Our days do not need our regrets. The constantly passing hours don't want us to waste another one in hate or nervousness. Most of the times, we need to break the barriers, cross the limits of self-love or hate, and look beyond it. There are a lot of people on the list who love us, and want our love. Who cherish us, and expect the same from us. 

Do not despair. Because if things are not going your way, then they are definitely reaching towards a different destination, better than you could ever plan for. Stay positive in your thoughts, and satisfied in your heart, and LORD willing, everything would be all right!


- FiamanALLAH!

Love you, O Maa!

A dark cold night it was, I remember,
starin' wide eyed, at the clear sky,
mood I felt was harsh and weird,
couldnt figure out the reason Why?




standin' there was I, in a bitter truth,
it felt as if all had fallen apart,
no one to hold me was standin' there,
Alone I was, with a broken heart,




a glimpse I saw, a mere light,
as my clock suddenly turned eleven,
covered in white, beauty of a bride,
looked as if it were from heaven,




it seemed as if the day has begun,
the shadows of night had long gone,
her beauty brightened all my senses,
into dusk, was turned the dawn!


Oh yes, it was, my gorgeous mother
who came to ask me if I had my dinner,
how sweetly her face enlightened the dark,
never she let me fall into despair,


I hugged her tight, tears ran down my eye,
I kept cursin myself, for feelin so odd,
she hugged me back, smoothly yet strong,
"may you remain in the protection of LORD"


i tell you the story of my only 'hope'
the one who stood by me, forever,
the hand, which never let me go
the smile, the faith, the accepted prayer!




She is my mother, my blessed friend,
the person who owns the right to me,
the one I owe my existence to,
the one who survived the worst for me,




i'd give my heart, my soul for her,
to make her happy, i'd sacrifice it all,
to make you proud, i'd face it all,
every burden, huge or small! 




I love you now, O Maa, till eternity,
no human can be, what you're to me!
may you live a long, a healthy life,
may LORD keep you forever, with me!

Be Inspired!

After watching this video, I literally feel blessed to have a home, a mom, dad, my siblings and my best friends always around me. 
So, our lives arent that bad, after all! 

Make Me Strong!

Embarrassments, Depressions, Desperations, Regrets, Heartbreaks, Failures... Who among us hasnt faced any of this? None. 
All of them combined, every moment of embarrassment, every second we spend in depression, everyday we felt desperate or regretful of something that happened in the Past, every time someone broke our heart or failed us, we get a group of; Mistakes!


No Human has ever been perfect. Since the days of Adam (Alaih Salam), humans have always acted in ways that weren't right. This creation of ALLAH Almighty has always been the one that disobeyed HIM, no matter of the knowledge it had. Adam (Alaih Salam) was ordered to not eat that 'one' apple, but he got distracted, and ended up doing something which he was forbidden of. He later regretted it, asked ALLAH, The ALMIGHTY, to forgive him, and ALLAH, The MERCIFUL, did forgive him. 


Mistake; An error or fault resulting from defective judgment, deficient knowledge, or carelessness. 
Mistake is that action, which does not give the correct result, but happens due to the poor knowledge, a misunderstanding or simple careless behaviour of someone. And they give us the emotions of negativity; Embarrassment, depression, regret etc. 
Every human goes through that moment, or a couple of moments, when he feels regretful of what he did or said in the past and cannot help but kneel down and, as tears roll down his eyes, say,"I am sorry." 


Even the most heartless, most harsh people who have committed the worst of sins, or crimes, have been observed to contain the feeling of regret. An uncle of mine, who was quite a rich man, left his job because it was not 'Halal' according to Islamic Values. Lived a life hand-to-mouth after resigning from that work. But as he passed away, the feeling of satisfaction was apparent on his face, as someone who dies as a Martyr. May his soul rest in peace!


I am not stating the concept of making mistakes and rejecting it. What I really want to tell myself, and people who might read it, is.. that as humans, we do make worst of the mistakes. We all have committed those sins that may feel good at the time, but later in life, you cannot do anything but call yourself an 'idiot' for that certain act. And that's where the belief and faith of "I am sorry" comes in!


ALLAH, THE ALMIGHTY, is always there. HE sees us, 24/7, and HIS angels are recording everything we do. We are sometimes so afraid of an act to be seen by anyone or the public. We keep or 'privacy' levels extremely high. But howcome we never realise that there is our LORD, from whom we can never hide? We are so worried about our mother knowing about a certain status update. We are always concerned about a certain 'page like' being seen by our sibling(s). We just cannot tell anyone in the family about that one curse word, or gossip, we learnt from school or office. But how come we forget that ALLAH The ALMIGHTY is ALL-Listener, ALL-Seeing? HE created us. HE sees, hears, knows of every little moment we spend in prayers, in sleeping, in crying, in smiling, in hating, in loving. HE, THE OMNIPOTENT, The OMNIPRESENT, Is always there and knows what are we upto next. 


As mentioned in Qur'an,"We are nearer to him, then his jugular vein. (Sorah Qaf(50): 16." 
ALLAH knows everything we write in the inbox of our Facebook. ALLAH knows everything we chat about in our IMs. ALLAH knows everything we think about, while talking to any body. HE knows whom we love, hate, despise, respect truly, or care about fakely. 
HE knows when our tears are true, and whenever our smiles are hypocrite, HE KNOWS. 
HE knows, when we bow infront of HIM for the sake of HIS existence, for HIS love, or just in the fear of Hell-fire. HE, The ALL-KNOWING, knows everything. 


Every single moment of regret, every little second we have spent worrying about something we did wrong, and have absolutely no clue on what to do next, is the feeling that needs us to bow down, and just forget the world.




In the case of ALLAH, The ALMIGHTY, things are different from the rest of the world. Its just the matter of one little tear that comes out of your eye, and when you ask HIM... HE doesnt answer you back by 'You hurt me..' Instead, HE knows you never meant to hurt YOUR CREATOR. You were just distracted by a mere feeling or most probably you were driven by your emotions or Shaitaan in you. When you bow infront of HIM, letting go of all your past, and begging HIM to forgive you, HE forgives you! "WALLAHu Ghafoor-ur Rahim" - Al Qur'an.
ALLAH is ALL FORGIVING, ALL MERCIFUL! HE never lets you down. HE knows whats the best for you, and sooner or later, HE does it, for you. 


Deep inside, we're all struggling. None of us lives an easy life. None of us is all-the-time-cheered up. And most of us are even striving to pass every day's challenges, facing them with every piece of bravery we have inside. We do wrong, all the time. We are not thankful, a lot of times. We get distracted, and even forget how truly blessed we are. But there comes that one moment, when things seem to fall apart and we have to say,"I am sorry, ya ALLAH." 


And when that moment comes, it seems like nothing in this world matters. Every human we ever committed a crime with, was as insignificant as the mistakes we have made. We believe, and truly know, that ALLAH is listening and seeing us and would not, at any cost, reject the apology note we are sending to him. The best part is, you dont need to send an online or offline note to ALLAH! All you need to do is, clean up yourself, stand on the Prayer Mat and say,"ALLAHu Akbar" and you will know that very feeling is... everything you ever wanted. 


One tear of 'tauba', today, is far more better than shedding countless tears of reject and hurt, tomorrow. Leave it on ALLAH, because if things are meant to be, then they would make their way towards the right destination themselves. If ALLAH has written it for you, it would come to you in the least of expected times. If you're worried about an exam result, just put all your efforts in the preparation, and leave the rest to ALLAH. If you're concerned about the health of your loved one, just believe that ALLAH gives pain to those HE loves. And in return, HE forgives a tons of sins. 
If you're worried about a relationship, ALLAH knows what and who is the best for you. Don't forget that if you're ALLAH's creation, so is the other person. And both of you, would know one day, if ALLAH wrote you in each others' fate or not. 
If your CREATOR has written a certain blessing in your fate, you would not have to cry and shed a thousand tears on it. If ALLAH considers it best for you, it would happen, eventually. 


Do not be impatient. Do not be afraid. Do not fear anything but the wrath of ALLAH. Do not rely on anyone but ALLAH. He would save you, from every trouble, every calamity, if HE intends to. Do not expect anything but ALLAH's blessings, for HE knows, whats the best for you and your given situation. 


And believe one thing. ALLAH has always Tested his Believers. Tested them so hard that they could feel the pain hitting like a thousand swords. But, none of the believers, the true ones, ever break down. They keep their faith intact, strong and make sure that whatever they are facing is from their LORD to test their Imaan (faith) and make them more strong, so it wont be hard for them to accept the challenges of life, later. 


ALLAH, would never fail you. Rely on HIM, ALLAH would never leave you. For HE loves us, Seventy times more than our own mothers. Ask ALLAH to make you strong, and HE will! Ask ALLAH to make you brave, and you will see that coward in yourself running away so far as if it never existed. 


Have faith in YOUR CREATOR, in ALLAH, and you will get everything to make you happy, satisfied and contended! InshaALLAH! Believe in yourself, in your Imaan, and eventually, everything will be all right :)

“And certainly, We shall test you with something of fear, hunger, loss of wealth, lives and fruits, but give glad
 tidings to as-Saabireen (the patient ones). 
 Who, when afflicted with calamity, say: “Inna lillaahi wa Inna Ilaihi Raaji’un (Verily to Allah we belong and verily, to Him we shall return).”
 They are those on whom are the Salawaat (i.e. who are blessed and will be forgiven) from their Lord, and (they are
 those who) receive His Mercy, and it is they who are the guided-ones.” (2:155-157)

Translation of the song 'Madno' (For sis Hala) :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cicPJdcHz0A




Madno - My dear 


Hai dil ko teri aarzu,
par main tujhe na paa sakoon,
hai dil ko teri justuju,
par main tujhe naa paa sakun,


My heart so longs for you,
but know, I'll never have you,
my heart strives to get you,
but know, i'll never have you..


Main hoon shab tu subha,
dono jur ke juda,
main hoon lab tu dua,
dono jur ke juda,


I am the dusk, you're the dawn to it,
together, yet separated
I am the lips, you are my prayer,
together, yet separated, (the girl sings the same)


Madno
My dear, 


Mashuka
my love,


Dilbar-o
my sweetheart...


Madno re,
O my Dear


Kayi khawab dil tujh ko le kar sajaye,
par khauf ye bhi kaheen par sataye,
gar ye bhi tootay tou phir hoga kia re
mujhe raas aati hain khushyaan kahan re,


So many dreams I build of you,
but I am always afraid,
what if these dreams do not come true?
Happiness is what I never had..


Kiun dil ko dukhaana bewaja, madno re,
Phir aansoo bahaana, ik dafa..
Phir aansoo bahana, ik dafaaaa


Why should I hurt this heart for nothing, o my dear,
yet again, why should I shed all these tears? 
yet again, why should I shed all these tears? 





Main hoon shab tu subha,
dono jur ke juda,
main hoon lab tu dua,
dono jur ke juda,

I am the dusk, you're the dawn to it,
together, yet separated,
if lips is me, you're the prayer to it,
together, yet separated,





Madno
My dear, 


Mashuka
my love,


Dilbar-o
my sweetheart...


Madno re,
O my Dear





(Girl)

Tu hi tou har pal bandha hai, lamhon ki in zanjeeron main,
tu hi tou har dam raha hai, khawabon ki har tabeeron main,
tu hi tou har din dikha hai, dhundli ya ujli tasweeron main,


You're tied in shackles of these moments,
You have been the reality to my dreams,
I see you, each day, in clear or blur images,


Teri hi tou hai khushboo mujh main haan, madno re,
teri hi tou hai khushboo, mujh main haan, 
ab tu hi tou har soo, har jaga,
ab tu hi tou har soo, har jaga...


Your fragrance lies in me, dear,
your fragrance lies in me...
you're in every spot, everywhere..
you're in every spot, everywhere..







(Kashmiri lyrics)
Bhi chus, shab se subha,
meelyth doshvai judaa,
bhi chus labh se dua,
meelyth doshvai juda




I am the dusk, you're the dawn to it,
together, yet separated,
if lips is me, you're the prayer to it,
together, yet separated,






Madno
My dear, 


Mashuka
my love,


Dilbar-o
my sweetheart...


Madno re,
O my Dear

Haan tera saaya tou main hun,

par tere sang na chal sakoon,

haan is safar main tou main hun,

par tere sang na ruk sakoon,

Though I am your shadow,

but cannot accompany you,

though I am in this journey,

yet cannot be destined with you..

Main hoon shab tu subha,
dono jur ke juda,
main hoon lab tu dua,
dono jur ke juda,

I am the dusk, you're the dawn to it,
together, yet separated,
if lips is me, you're the prayer to it,
together, yet separated,





Madno
My dear, 


Mashuka
my love,


Dilbar-o
my sweetheart...


Madno re,
O my Dear


Mahiyaa ve 
My beloved,


Mahiyaa ve,
O my beloved...

Sorry for any mistakes :)

FiamanALLAH!

I Wont Let Go... (For The Rest Of My Life - Maher Zain)

I praise Allah for sending me you my love
You found me home and sail with me
And I'm here with you
Now let me let you know
You've opened my heart
I was always thinking that love was wrong
But everything was changed when you came along

And there's a couple words I want to say
For the rest of my life
I'll be with you
I'll stay by your side honest and true
Till the end of my time
I'll be loving you. loving you
For the rest of my life
Through days and night
I'll thank Allah for open my eyes
Now and forever I I'll be there for you
I know that deep in my heart
I feel so blessed when I think of you
And I ask Allah to bless all we do
You're my wife and my friend and my strength
And I pray we're together to Jannah
Now I find myself so strong
Everything changed when you came along

And there's a couple word I want to say
For the rest of my life
I'll be with you
I'll stay by your side honest and true
Till the end of my time
I'll be loving you. loving you
For the rest of my life
Through days and night
I'll thank Allah for open my eyes
Now and forever I I'll be there for you
I know that deep in my heart now that you're here
Infront of me I strongly feel love
And I have no doubt
And I'm singing loud that I'll love you eternally
For the rest of my life
I'll be with you
I'll stay by your side honest and true
Till the end of my time
I'll be loving you.loving you
For the rest of my life
Thru days and night
I'll thank Allah for open my eyes
Now and forever I I'll be there for you
I know that deep in my heart <3


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5XmuoTyLMAg&feature=related (A fan-made video of the song, I cant seem to Embed it for some reason, but opening the link is worth it, trust me)

This is one of the most beautiful songs I've ever listened to. Its not about romantic love, instead, it shows the true meaning of being there, being close to someone and promising in the real sense that you'll not let go, for the rest of your life.. 


One day, I wish someone would dedicate this to me :) *dream on, girl* 

... lets hold-on, to each other, forever - not happily ever after!

Relationships without fights are that one thing the world is yet to witness. Titanic sank, 9/11 happened, Iraq got invaded, African kids are still dying, America has a black president, OBL died, but well, we are still waiting for that one person with whom we would have the fairy-tale-love-story and a happily ever after! Oh well, this is life, and it sucks, doesn't it? 


Frankly speaking, I never believed in Happy endings. Because if its an end, how can it be happy? See, logic talks. But the Disney world and the ideas that are built up in our minds as kids or, more precisely, as teenagers, really don't give us much options. We are supposed to believe, specially the girl-gender, that there exists a prince charming, he comes with a white horse, wearing a white suit, holding a red rose, kneels down, asks the girl for her hand, marries her and they live happily ever after. Are you kidding me? 


Irony of these stories is, they never tell you what happened afterwards. They just give that 'one moment' of happiness and let you believe that the rest went well. All right, that one beautiful moment happened, everything was perfect, she was happy, he was blessed. But did it work out in between them for the next 20 years?


Unbelievable are the people who are too busy thinking about themselves and how badly they want a perfect relationship, while they don't realise is, if anything was meant to be perfect, why would words like Improvement, compromise and holding on exist? Specially, when its about a relationship between a man and a woman. If it were supposed to be so awesome and so feel-good, then why would, lets say, counselling be there? Why would Yahoo! keep giving you relationship advice every other day on their home page? Why would rules of dating/relationship/marriage be there in the first place? Solely, because nothing is meant to be perfect. 


People mess up. We all do. Sometimes, we mess up so bad, that its hard to even think about it. Doing something is out of question, a lot of times. I don't happen to be some love guru, but my honourable parents have been married for 28 years, MashaALLAH. And I am an eye witness to mess ups... but thats what makes a bond more fascinating, and truly names it as 'A Relationship'.


I have seen them fight, yell at each other, hate each other, but LORD be my witness, They held on to each other, like no one. And that is what Love, relationship and compromise are all about. My dad was the only person who could handle maa when my maternal grandmaa passed away (May her soul rest in peace). Maa, being extremely close to 'naani maa' (grandmaa), was massively shocked. And none of us, the kids, could see her in this state. Even my eldest brother, who was the closest to maa, couldn't take that shock off of her. Because obviously, at that time, you dont need your little boy telling you that he is upset because you're upset. And certainly, without a doubt, the last thing you would need is a prince charming. What a woman really demands for is, A Man! Who would make her strong enough to face each and every challenge that comes in her way, and would not walk away. So basically, the whole concept of prince charming fails when real life approaches. 


In real life, a man needs a woman on whom he can rely. Who can take care of herself, him, his family, his home, his finances... basically, his life! 
In real life, a woman needs a man whom she can trust, with her life, with her kids, with her dignity, as simple as that. 


Basically, in real life, fights happen. Mess ups happen. But you hold on to the one you actually, literally, love. If you take a break, you come back as a better, more sincere, more committed person. Realizing the importance of the love of your life, you do not give up on each other. There has been no man and woman together who never fought. Its just that; some couples resolve issues better than the others. Some take the responsibility, the blame over the mess up, and let the other person take his anger out. And end up apologising, and moving on with their lives. They never walk away, because if cowardly attitude was the option, the right one, then oh well, we get to witness divorces, breakups, depressed people with a weird attitude called a 'heart-break'. But if only one person among us realizes the value of compromise, communication and of course, holding on, then the world would be a less depressed, more happy place to live in! 

If I said, I'll hold on, that simply meant: forever. Not the fairy-tale one, but the real life one, when our kids are married, living in other states, we're old, can barely walk, one of us cannot even talk... But still, can hold each others' hands.. and believe that after all the fights, mess ups, fears, losses.. we're still together! And thats all, that matters. 

Failure Is Not An Excuse, Its A Reminder...

For so many years, everything was going normal. Whatever I had wished, I got it. But one day, suddenly, everything seemed to be falling apart, and thats when I realised, I've started to 'fail'.


Failure; The condition of not achieving the desired end or result. Basically, failure is when you do not meet the exact needs or expectations set by yourself or the people around you. As we all are aware of the fact that there are certain goals every humans has in his mind. These aims or goals can or cannot be self-made. But anyhow, they are a human's reason to work, to struggle and to reach the given destination.


But why do we fail? Is it because we're not putting enough effort or our attitude towards a certain thing is not right?
I am that sort of a person who has seen failures more than the good success! Not that I am some experienced Einstein or anything. But yes, I have had my set of constant reminders telling me that I need to change. The answer to my above question could most probably be that when a certain thing or job needs modification in our attitude, it stops giving us the desired result. 


Failure is not an excuse to quit. As per my belief, its more like an alarm clock that wakes us up from the state of not being 'good enough'. Many times, we are in a position when believing that everything is going as good as needed makes us feel so much better. But when the results show up, we're shattered if they do not meet our expectations. But what do we need to do if we want to make things go our way, the required way? 


Its simple! The difference between Human species and Angels is; The former ones make mistakes. 
But the biggest difference between the failures and achievers is; the latter keeps learning from the mistakes, and never gives up on fulfilling his desire. 

That's exactly why we need failures. To keep telling us that as we grow up, there are certain things that require a change.
You see, I cannot expect the world to believe that I studied hard in the exams, until I get good grades. If I end up failing, its basically telling me that there is something missing in my effort, or my behavior towards the studies which demands me to transform into someone more committed and honest. 
And when I get the results that can meet the expectations of myself and people around me, its telling me that I have proven myself as an achiever.


And of course, the story of the King and The Spider, has been in our textbooks for as long as one can remember. Now I know, why it was such an important question back in the days! 


As they say,"Failure is not when you fall down in the race. Its when you fall down, and never get up." 


Just have faith in yourself, in your capabilities, and never let anything come in your way. Not even an "F" Grade. Because If failing were to stop humans from reaching their goals, then the word success from dictionary would be removed, immediately! 

"Stay the same and you'll keep falling down. Bring one little change, be a little more committed and you'll see success knocking on your door every moment, its your call."

Life is beautiful...

Just ENJOY it :D

Go Crazy..

So, I am in some real chilled mood today. Well, yeah, it is a miracle as I am someone my friends often like to refer as 'Dukhi Aatma (Sad Soul's insulting version)'; thats me *smiles*


Actually, what happened really was that I watched a movie the other day. Yes, you might have heard it a thousand times that people feel like a total different human being after watching some random feel-good movie. But I actually did feel good. That day, I was going through some depressing moments. Had a break-up with a very close friend. And as panicking is something I normally do, ended up panicking and embarrassing myself, as usual. 
Anyhow, the movie was "Zindagi Na Milegi Dubara (Life would not be granted to you, again). It was a real awesome movie. And most of all, it was basically the refreshment I needed at that certain moment. 


The main theme behind it was, face your fears. Yes, face the things that keep you up at nights, those scary stupid things that ruin your days, and those crazy desperations which dont let you feel good most of the time.  So, live in the day, the present. Forget what might come in the future. Because you never know if life is going to be your best friend in the coming days or not. 


Just live in the moment, enjoy everything thats with you, right now! Whats gone, was never meant to be yours. What you got is your blessing enough, because hundreds of thousands of people dream of the lifestyle, the life you have. It goes out to everyone, including myself, to live in the moment, thank your LORD for blessing you with every little thing you're honored with. 


The least we can do is, smile! The best that can be done is, go crazy! Do the things you've never tried. Dance on your ringtone with your partner, call some random friend to say 'Hi', kiss your mother's hands and tell her you love her the most in the whole world. IM a friend and let them know of something they did good for you and how thankful you are. Skype a friend and tell them you missed listening their voice.
If you live an outgoing life, then go into a Mall, meet some old people and tell them they look beautiful. For people who hardly take time out for themselves, try grooming yourself today. Just go CRAZY! Trust me, it feels as good as being in heaven! 


Life would not be granted to us, again! Its a fact, an ultimate truth. A reality that cannot be ignored. So why not live every moment, forget the worries and concentrate on the current blessings, rather than whats gone and would never come back? Be positive about the future, but dont be afraid or worried about it. As they say "Hope for the best, but prepare for the best." 


If you lose someone, they never deserved you. 
If you lose something, it was never meant to be yours.
Learn to love yourself. Dont go around telling everyone how sad you're on a certain failure. Instead, when they ask you why you failed, just tell them,"Watch me! Succeeding in a better way."


Never let anything bring you down. Never let anyone tell you that you cannot achieve anything. Be courageous enough to face challenges, and strong enough to not let anything stop you from winning it.


Life is a one time oppurtunity. Once its gone, its gone! No going back, no stopping it. Yes, it does sound like some Eminem-Rap, but thats why he is so popular. Because what he, sometimes, says is true. 
Believe in yourself, smile, take a deep breath and... GO CRAZY :D

"I dont cry in the rain, so no one can see me crying. I'd rather dance in it, so other ones who are crying, can join me, and feel better." - Me :)